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Levels of frequency for overcoming addiction.

Everything is based on energy. EVERYTHING!

The difference between the man who makes things happen, and the man who doesn’t. It’s all based in energy.

And if you can, somehow figure out how to prevent your energy from fleeting,

The block is actually the fear. 

In order to get out of Addiction we must aim for something above pride. Because, the pride actually keeps us in the lower survival part of the quadrant. Where as, as soon as we start to aim for courage and neutrality, we can start to affirm ourselves and trust that everything will work out. Because if we reach a vibration of neutrality, then we enter into an upward cycle rather than a downward cycle. 

They even talk about neutrality in the law of attraction. When they say when you’re caught in a bad cycle of emotions, go neutral, go general. That’s what they mean, because if you’re caught in a downward negative spiral you’ll go downwards constantly until you reach the bottom and self destruct. So what you really want, is to realise that you don’t want to self destruct, you want to love yourself. You don’t want to be free, you are already free. What you want is to heal from the sensation, or the feeling which is keeping you in the lesser quadrant. 

You want to FEEL free. But a sensation in your body doesn’t prevent you from being free, it’s simply like having a pair of tinted glasses, it distorts your perspective a little and you tend to end up thinking that you’ll never free yourself from the thought, sensation, situation and you feel powerless over it. So what do you do when you feel powerless?
You decide to give yourself a temporary boost to feel powerful for a second, which then actually disempowers you. When you feel empowered, you don’t actually want to disempower yourself, so you end up stepping away from those kinds of activities…

So, when talking about the energy and addiction, you’ll very likely find that the ideas in your mind, the fears and scenarios you end up projecting are actually in proportion fo a degree of fear that you feel you have no control over. 

Two routes to deal with addiction. Up or down. 

Fear -> Desire -> Anger -> Pride -> Courage. -> Neutrality. 

Fear -> Desire ->Anger -> (Coping mechanism)->  Grief -> Apathy -> Guilt -> Shame. 

So we’re fearful of something, so we jump to desire to control the emotion, but as soon as we give in to the ‘desire’ for instant gratification to overcome the fear, we get to regret. Then from regret we’re defacto in grief (because we’ve let go of our vital energy and need to go through a micro grieving period.. We’ve killed our life force). But then, if our coping mechanism kicks in to get out of grief, we end up losing more energy, and then we repeat this loop a few times and enter a state of hopelessness. Hopelessness is apathy. Thats a step lower. 

And if we repeat the coping mechanism again, because we want to ‘feel something’, then we enter guilt territory and then it becomes shameful because we feel bad for our way of coping (we judge ourselves and call ourselves evil) and then we end up feeling miserable because if we’re bad for trying to cope with our pain point, and we haven’t been taught how to solve our pain points, then we’re going to feel terrible because there’s no hope. 

And most often, guys aren’t taught how to overcome pain points, we’re simply not taught how to undo pain… We simply accumulate pains or traumas and end up hitting a wall later on because we have too many pains to deal with and not enough tools to cope with the pain.. So what happens when we hit the wall? We end up self destructing and spiralling out of control. We don’t understand whats happening, and then we end up hating ourselves… 

When the solution is pretty simple. All you have to do is understand where your pain points are and how you can undo them…

But you can’t get over or let go of something until you’re ready and you’ve had enough of living under that fear. – That’s the moment when you realize deep down, I’ve had enough, I’m making a change. So you look fear in the eye, saying ‘I’ve had enough of this, I’m going to do this with or without you…’ Then fear crawls away back to where it came from. 

But we can only overcome addiction (desire) when we are no longer afraid of the fear or the thing that’s keeping us powerless and forces us to use a coping mechanism to feel in control.